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If your interactions are age-appropriate, it means you treat people with disabilities the same way you would treat other people who are the same chronological age. Age-appropriate activities and interactions are based on respect. The following are examples of age appropriateness. 

Offer people choices that people their age would consider appropriate:

SituationThese age-inappropriate activities or responses foster childlike imagesThese activities or responses are age-appropriate 
Movies /Television
 
Cartoons, children’s shows (e.g., Sesame Street)
 
Comedy, sports, suspense, game, western or animal shows
 
Music
 
Children’s tapes, CDs and music
 
Radio or tapes (mix tape, relaxation device, etc.)
 
Diversional (distraction)
items (not toys) 
 
Infant toys (i.e. rattle, top) 
 
Maracas, sensory stimulation items
 
Hobbies
 
Children’s coloring books, playing Candyland, watching Sesame Street  
 
Special collections
(e.g., stamps), computers, art projects, magazines, card games with card holder 
 
Reading Materials
 
Children’s books
 
Magazines, poetry, books, newspapers 
 
Room Decorations
 
Cartoon characters
children’s theme
 
Sports figures, appropriate pictures of actors or actresses, landscapes, nature 
 

Speak to people with disabilities as you would to others who are the same age:

SituationThese age-inappropriate activities or responses foster childlike imagesThese activities or responses are age-appropriate 
Nicknames
 
Tommy, Billy, Janey 
 
Tom, Bill, Jane 
 
Tone of voice, speech 
 
High-pitch, baby talk 
 
Use normal voice and words the person understands 
 
Social interactions 
 
Speak only to parents or
caregivers 
 
Speak to the person, make eye-contact, include in
conversations and at the table
 
Negative conversations
(i.e., speaking about the
individuals as if they
cannot hear)
 
Speak about people as if they’re not there; discussing topics individual should NOT hear   
 
Step out of room to discuss sensitive topics; assume people can understand you 
 
Communication
 
Assume people cannot
understand 
 
Ask caregivers if a method of communication is used
 

Offer help and assistance that lets people be as independent as possible:

Situation
 
These age-inappropriate activities or responses foster childlike images
 
These activities or responses are age-appropriate 
 
Partial Participation
 
Individuals watch a game as you “play” for them 
 
Use physical or verbal assistance such as a card holder; adapt activity so people can participate (i.e. break down the steps) 
 
Responsibilities / Control 
 
Do chores for them, dress  them, feed them, push their wheelchair when they’re
capable of pushing themselves 
 
Encourage problem solving, decision making, initiation; give responsibilities to allow for independence and choices 
 
Free time
 
Telling an adult, “Someone is here to PLAY with you”  
 
Instead of “play”, use age-
appropriate term such as, hang-out 
 

Examples of Age-Appropriate Diversions:

Reading
 
Music
 
Television
 
Games
 
Arts/Crafts
 
Other
 
newspaper
magazines
poetry
comic strips
Guinness Book of World Records
riddles, jokes
books (novels, short stories)
 
radio
tape/cd
TV station
play instrument
sound machine
 
movies
game shows
comedy
westerns
sports
suspense
dramas
animal shows
 
card games
catch
computer
board games
video games
crosswords
word search
basketball (sports)
 
painting
drawing
models
simple projects
sewing
journal
stencils
beads (jewelry)
 
walk outside
conversation
gift shop
sensory stimulation items
chapel
cooking
dance
 

This information is for educational purposes only. It is not intended to replace the advice of your health care providers. If you have any questions, talk with your doctor or others on your health care team.

If you are a Gillette patient with urgent questions or concerns, please contact Telehealth Nursing at 651-229-3890.

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